Again no advice needed... just want to rant and rave about the annoyance of a past gf >_<
anyway if you read my "Relationship" Topic you know who im talking about... if you didn't then you probably don't care anymore now than you did then XD well anyway...
So Kim and me were supposed to try and be friends after we broke up. I was having a hard time with it because I was pretty sure she left me to be with someone else. These suspicions were only strengthened when only a matter of days went by and she was dating again. I started thinking... and the fact that she couldn't tell me anything that she didn't like about me just made me think that she was not willing to live 2hrs apart and she wasn't getting enough sex. Well she had gone to a friend's house while we were still dating "I havn't seen him in so long! Oh nothing went on he was very respectful of our relationship, but he asked me out anyway isn't that funny?" Yeah whenever a girl says "They did something that you won't like, isn't that funny?" to me that means "Yeah I went along with it." So this guy probably didn't even know we were dating... but I believed her while we were going out...
Well all the sudden theres pictures on FB "Me an my Baby" and guess who it is? Yep "He was so respectful of our relationship" guy. Well I decided at that point that we can't be friends and wanted to wait at least until we could talk IM to tell her that instead of just sending her a message and/or deleting her. Well we IM and all I said was
"Im glad you are here.
I don't think I can be friends with you.
I don't want to talk to you anymore sorry."
(I didn't want to get into it with her or try to explain.)
Well she starts going off about "How dare you?" and "I can't believe this level of immaturity in you" and asked me if it was because I thought she left me for someone else
Well being a dumbass and sticking around I said yes and went on to explain
"You can't tell me why we broke up, just a few days after we broke up you were dating again, and just a few weeks after we broke up (which is when I found out not when you guys started dating) you have a bf. And guess who it is? Mr. I havn't seen him in so long! Oh nothing happened blah blah blah. Sorry it's just a little too convenient for me."
Well she starts on her "how dare you" thing again and says that it's none of my buisiness what she does with Dylan (her bf) and talking about how happy he makes her. I was like "Yeah I feel bad for him cuz you are gonna eat his heart too. Everything you are saying about him sounds strangely familiar"
Well you can guess where that went... she started saying F you and calling me names and immature and things, yeah whatever right?
Well all the sudden she starts saying how she hated me because I wanted to change her and make her fit into my little mold (which she had said before and I had told her several times I loved her just the way she was and didn't want her to change) so that was BS then she said she needed a man in her life and blah blah blah and I was like "God that's what I said before we ever started dating! I was afraid that you wouldn't be happy with a girl and you re-assured me damn it!" well longer story told long she never said anything meaningful and I didn't argue with her. I just reminded her that she knew the truth and that it would stay with her no matter what she chose to believe. Then I told her bye...
I was able to see her say "Wait listen to this one more thing before you go" before I deleted her XD and ever since then she has been sending me messages saying "Im never talking to you again" "You have burnt this bridge and you will never ever hear from me again" "I have nothing to say to you other than the message I sent you last night" on FB and apparently MSN while I am offline XD I havn't answered any of these... but the whole thing has just made me so pissed I had to write something XD
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Well thank you Thor ^_^ but it really is women XD every girl I have ever dated has been this way... maybe it's me... idk... but Men are so much easier to please XD
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I'm not going to say "too much emotion", but definately a little more than needs to be.
I don't knwo what else to say; emotions are not bad until people start losing thier composure and goes off doing things they would never do for illogical reasons.
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Well thank you Thor ^_^ but it really is women XD every girl I have ever dated has been this way... maybe it's me... idk... but Men are so much easier to please XD
we really are damn easy to please. if we want something, we say it.
being forward with your thoughts/wants can solve many problems, (but i imagine it can cause many too... i mean, when we say we're attracted to other women, you gotta understand that its honestly means NOTHING. theres attraction, and then there is love. a smart man will never throw away love for an attraction.)
*sigh*
still, girls are pretty damn hot. the things we put up with because of their cuteness.
XD you know, THAT is something i understand XD just because the guy one's dating sees a cute/hot/w.e girl walk past him it doesn't mean he's gonna leave you...some girls think they will XD
that's why i started ogling guys <.< well, that's not the reason xD but it's stupid to ask someone to stop looking when there are sometimes good things to see XD
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Yeah, I think actually im too trusting in relationships... It never occurred to me to be jealous when someone looks at other people... I just trust until I have a reason not too. But then I have no trouble at all breaking up XD
I mean, I let my bf/gfs go to parties, hang out with friends, see movies and stuff without me if I trust them... all I ever ask is when they should be back home (so I know they are ok) you know?
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XD you know, THAT is something i understand XD just because the guy one's dating sees a cute/hot/w.e girl walk past him it doesn't mean he's gonna leave you...some girls think they will XD
that's why i started ogling guys <.< well, that's not the reason xD but it's stupid to ask someone to stop looking when there are sometimes good things to see XD
TBH thats fine.
its not fine when the girl starts making lewd comments about the guy that just walked past. (which has happened to me, despite my near complete lack of any real relationship with a girl)
I think its just plain rude for your boyfriend/girlfriend whatever to be out with you and to be staring at other people because they are attractive
and as much as it may not be something to be annoyed about (although i probably would be XD)
its nothing you want to see
just as much as you dont like a girlfriend saying the words " so and so is hot"
"look at so and so's chest mmm" or whatever XD
its the same as
you may fantasise about someone and cant help that
but you dont go describing it to them
if your staring and we know why you are staring
its the same thing XD
Though seriously if Im out walking around in the night to ASDA with the pedo/rapist/murderer/psycho of questionable sanity vampy....who do I have to be afraid of? XD
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Rose. Time is the best healer for these kinds of problems. I think you’ve handled the situation well so far and I’m sure it will get better as time passes by and it becomes a part of your past, not present.
Also, not all women are dramatic and not straightforward, maybe just the stereotypical ones, which I don’t like having as friends or surround myself with. I’m sure you will find the right person for you, I believe everyone does sooner or later.
Poor rosie!
Ugh. I just can't understand how anyone could treat my big sister that way. Or how anyone could treat anyone that way, for that matter. The level of selfishness in that person is just so annoyingly high. You are way better off, rose. But I know that you were in love with her, so it doesn't matter how much she proves her flaws, you were in love with her despite them. So there isn't really much that teh pinata can say to make you feel better except that teh pinata will be here and teh pinata is sure that all the people at funender will be here for you too.
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