sometimes girls cant help but be insecure sometimes thou Orothe cuz they not only get told by the media but there bfs and even family members critisizim is everywhere!
*clenches fist and raises it to the sky* i will fight the world for you Miaka! *hugs* I would never! treat you that way! I'm not like all your other boyfriends. I love you.
Arc is right cuz Arc is Arc and Arc is always right.
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*clenches fist and raises it to the sky* i will fight the world for you Miaka! *hugs* I would never! treat you that way! I'm not like all your other boyfriends. I love you.
i knw sweetie i knw but the scars are still there and remind me everyday. T_T im just saying when a girls negative abt her looks it isnt always cuz shes an attention w**** eh hem sometimes its cuz she has been abused deeply just saying.....ill stop now, anyway yea but thats how i feel abt the media and such
i knw sweetie i knw but the scars are still there and remind me everyday. T_T im just saying when a girls negative abt her looks it isnt always cuz shes an attention w**** eh hem sometimes its cuz she has been abused deeply just saying.....ill stop now, anyway yea but thats how i feel abt the media and such
i understand that as well because even though im not a girl so the whole media thing about how girls arent supposed to look ive been abused myself - and i wont ever let anyone * hurt you.
Arc is right cuz Arc is Arc and Arc is always right.
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well as miaka said...there are others to blame too, not just the media...i think its also our fault cause a lot of ppl support the look that media promotes...its like burned into our mentality..its like a vicious circle lol
but there are also ppl with a realy fast metabolism who are 'twigs' by nature...i had a classmate like that...she was eating a lot yet she was still insanely skinny...
simply put...bashing or hating skinny ppl is not right...hating the fact that some ppl starve themselves because of the media pressure is ok XD lol dunno how much sense made that...but thats how i see it...promoting an image that not everyone can obtain and knowing it can cause lot of pressure is not right but thats not a reason to hate ppl who managed to get that looks...im not talking just about models
Ok, well I understand mika, and I appologize if it sounded bad. I just ment that some girls do it to be like the media, in hopes they get the same attention.
I am very sorry you were talked bad about, and by family is wrong on so many levels.
I am glad you have a good guy for a bf. So few of us left these days. XD
@All Girls : Your drop dead gorgeous! *drools* :p (please don't sue me for sexual harassment. >.<)
Beauty can only be defined as the essence you hold, and not by the appearence you give...
Orothe wrote:
A rare gem such as yourself should never be given freely to those that would otherwise tarnish such beauty...
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Promise's are just words that people cling to in hopes that they are set in stone, when in reality, are as flexible as the air itself that carried those very words...
its alright and yes it has been a very hard life style which makes it hard for us to just love ourselves the way we r so i dont hate skinny ppl it just seems were im from there usually stuck up snobs and hate us overweight ppl when they dont even knw us? the worlds just messed up as well as the media ya knw? im glad i have a caring guy too and i knw that ive been burned alot and im sure im not the only one but sometimes u think HEY when am i gonna get a break?
Orothe wrote:
Ok, well I understand mika, and I appologize if it sounded bad. I just ment that some girls do it to be like the media, in hopes they get the same attention.
I am very sorry you were talked bad about, and by family is wrong on so many levels.
I am glad you have a good guy for a bf. So few of us left these days. XD
@All Girls : Your drop dead gorgeous! *drools* :p (please don't sue me for sexual harassment. >.<)
yes i agree for the most part but sometimes u can do everything right and you still dont get ANY results....im not too negative anymore but, it is hard on me having the memories i do. ill just say this my dad and my ex are to blame >,< grrrrrrr
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well as miaka said...there are others to blame too, not just the media...i think its also our fault cause a lot of ppl support the look that media promotes...its like burned into our mentality..its like a vicious circle lol
but there are also ppl with a realy fast metabolism who are 'twigs' by nature...i had a classmate like that...she was eating a lot yet she was still insanely skinny...
simply put...bashing or hating skinny ppl is not right...hating the fact that some ppl starve themselves because of the media pressure is ok XD lol dunno how much sense made that...but thats how i see it...promoting an image that not everyone can obtain and knowing it can cause lot of pressure is not right but thats not a reason to hate ppl who managed to get that looks...im not talking just about models
Arc is right cuz Arc is Arc and Arc is always right.
Omg. Kim is the greatest ever. I LOVE YOU KIM.
You brought me back to life. You're the best Phoenix Down in the world
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ok, well, i read a little of the first posts, but, my sister is overweight, and my mom struggles with money, my sister is depressed, cuts herself, and ugh, its horrible how people make fun of her, i hate it, but then again, my sister doesnt care, she likes being big, you see, my sister is a manly woman, she loves fishing, hunting, etc... but, i still dont think its fair that people rub it in her face, but, then again, i like skinny girls, not bone skinny, oh no, but average size is fine for me, no offense if i offended anyone, im just speaking my mind
There's nothing wrong with liking skinny yet healthy women as long as you don't perpetuate the stereotype that women are only pretty when they're thin...I mean I watched an episode of Top Model and the women on there gross me out I mean you can see their bones...ewww it makes me want to puke.
Okay it really doesn't matter what women look like at all. And the sooner people realize that the better. It doesn't matter if your big or not it doesn't matter if you're skinny or not, but don't make yourself so skinny that you make yourself sick. Don't listen to all these * up models. Listen to yourself and listen to your heart and your mind and what you want. Not what somebody on TV wants. People here will be a lot smarter when they realize it doesn't matter what you look like. Hopefully they'll realize this and stop treating women like toys, and start treating them like treasures.
Arc is right cuz Arc is Arc and Arc is always right.
Omg. Kim is the greatest ever. I LOVE YOU KIM.
You brought me back to life. You're the best Phoenix Down in the world
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Everyone has to be reminded of ONE of the golden rules.. "True beauty lies within one's eyes"
I do, however, believe that memories can be a burden. Memories are suppose to be "priceless" but if something causes too much pain, it seems to be burned into your head and you can never forget it, and no matter how many times you look back at it, the same amount of pain returns, as if you had just gone through it yesterday...
If only there was a less-painful way to forget memories besides Electroshock-therapy. >.< lol
Beauty can only be defined as the essence you hold, and not by the appearence you give...
Orothe wrote:
A rare gem such as yourself should never be given freely to those that would otherwise tarnish such beauty...
Orothe wrote:
Promise's are just words that people cling to in hopes that they are set in stone, when in reality, are as flexible as the air itself that carried those very words...
i dont like girls that are extremely skinny or w.e. to tell the truth i don't rly care what a girl looks like as long as she has a good personality and stuff.
to the b/f asking there g/f to loose a bit of wait i don't think thats wrong as long as its for health reason or atleast not for themselfs but for theyre g/f, and if they don't and then the b/f goes and breaks up with the g/f for a twig well then thats is just wrong.
And i belive you should just not care what other ppl think about your wait, familly, partener, friend, or any one! If you think your to big then you choose to loose wait just make sure its a healthy way (for example i bike to down town then back home ( a good hour, hour and a half threw a bunch of hills)). If you do it a healthy way you will feel great afterwards , but if you go anorexic you will probly feel bad ( i tried and umm yeah not sumthing i want to do now ) plus going anorexic ( or bolimic) can cause alot of health problems i think can also break your bones or something so yeah dont go anorexic!
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