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Thu May 17, 2012 3:20 am |
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I got very bullied for my height (I am quite short) in primary school, and one day I fought back (A bit over reactive, I threw a desk at a kid) but then no one bullied me again.
So, starting High school, the first person who bullied me happened to be about twice my size and I tried my hardest to fight him, but to no avail unfortunately. Still, he walked away with respect for me, and he never picked on me again.
If you don't react with aggression, be prepared to be picked on for life.
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Thu May 17, 2012 3:34 am |
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personally, i view that as a completely different battle.
If you're overweight, no matter what you do, you'll just get picked at more, at least that's what's happened in my experience. It just kills me that people are doing this to the point of others committing suicide.
Yet their parents see it as a part of growing up. It's disturbing how much kids get away with these days.
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Thu May 17, 2012 3:41 am |
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Part of it depends if you are willing/can stand up for yourself. But the teachers etc have to be aware of the limits of their pupils.
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Thu May 17, 2012 3:54 am |
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I've never had the courage or self-confidence to stand up for myself, and everyone knew that. only two teachers have ever stood up for me in my entire life. both in high school. lol
I was in Agriculture science, and it was sophomore year, i believe. Year 10. and we had just taken the club yearbook photo. This kid said something, i don't remember what, and i broke down crying. I stopped in the hallway where i was, hid behind and slid down a wall, and started bawling like a baby. a dozen or so people went past, then the teachers noticed i wasn't in the classroom. they grabbed the kid and dragged him out of the room to apologize to me. of course he was still a jerk to me, but not in front of those two teachers.
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Thu May 17, 2012 4:04 am |
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But the reality of life is that it will happen though. School should be the transition between being protected by parents and teachers, to standing up for yourself and being independent. No-one will be protected for their whole life, thats my opinion anyway.
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Thu May 17, 2012 7:08 am |
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| I've never had the courage or self-confidence to stand up for myself, and everyone knew that. |
That's why you and everyone else got bullied at school. Not because you're fat or ugly or weird. But because they knew that you'd let them. That applied to me too for a long time.
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Thu May 17, 2012 6:13 pm |
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Kyu is right...if I went back to do it all again the first person who tried something...I think I'd turn around and flip out....cuz I feel like I've grown as a person... unfortunately in high school I was a meek little thing who didn't stand up for myself.
You just have to stand up for yourself weirdy...next person who says anything tell them to go f themselves XD
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Thu May 17, 2012 6:26 pm |
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You don't flip out, cos flipping out lets them know they're getting to you. It's when you calmly approach them and backhand the kid across their face, them walk away as if nothing happened. THAT freaks them out.
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Thu May 17, 2012 6:32 pm |
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I meant freak out like punch to the face...or like Im gonna take this and shove it down your throat...and if it happens again actually do it...I reckon you only get messed with so many times after you go mental XD
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Thu May 17, 2012 6:43 pm |
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Yeah, no one wants to mess with the 'crazy' kid. There is a huge difference between guys and girls though. Girls are more prone to mental assaults, whereas guys cop it physically. I would much prefer to cop a hiding than to have someone in my head, messing with my emotions.
In a way, School for a guy is just like prison. You either make a stand and drop the biggest guy you can find, or you end up as someone's b*tch for the rest of your time there.
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Thu May 17, 2012 11:44 pm |
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I never had the courage to stand up for myself until school shootings became a thing. Then people slowly became afraid of me even though I hadn't done anything. And once people were auto-afraid, I didn't even really need the courage. ^^;
And 90% of my teachers did a crap job. besides 2 of them, all of my teachers from 1st-7th grade either did nothing when they saw people picking on me, or they practically started it. keep in mind that in 6th and 7th grade, i had 6 different teachers thanks to switching classes.
My 5th grade teacher let me stay inside and help her grade papers instead of forcing me to go outside for recess. And if she saw people being mean to me, she had a special desk in the back corner that she'd make them sit in for the rest of class.
And my 6th grade English/Homeroom teacher made anyone that picked on me do push-ups. He was also the coach of the boys basketball team, which was the sport most of the guys that picked on me played. So if they were continuously mean, he'd make them do extra warm-ups during practice.
Aaaahhh, i miss McBride. XD
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Fri May 18, 2012 5:11 am |
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Well, I think I was like that in my first 2 years at high school... 2 fights later (not started by me btw, they were trying to show off) and no-one bothered me again....
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Fri May 18, 2012 3:18 pm |
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that's one way to do it. XD
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[quote="Kuro Ryu"]crazed is more controlling in a dominatrix kinda way than an annoying kinda way XD It's like everyone listening is Crazed's b*tch[/quote]
[quote="mgold07"]If Crazed is my aunt I'm very worried for my sanity...XD[/quote]
[quote="mgold07"]I find it good to know that Crazed does not believe in rape and yet does believe in the killing of orphans.[/quote]
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Fri May 18, 2012 5:49 pm |
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I didn't even get to actually do it myself.... They just came along.
Although in later years it could also be due to the fact that a lot of people who didn't want to stay dropped out.
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Fri May 18, 2012 9:07 pm |
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I never even thought about dropping out or leaving. I figured the only way out of this town was the graduate and get a job far-far-away.
It's weird when i run into people that did give up and drop out though. There's one that's friends with a friend of mine. You think we'd get along because we've gone through the same thing, but mother of god if i could kill her and get away with it, i would....
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[quote="Kuro Ryu"]crazed is more controlling in a dominatrix kinda way than an annoying kinda way XD It's like everyone listening is Crazed's b*tch[/quote]
[quote="mgold07"]If Crazed is my aunt I'm very worried for my sanity...XD[/quote]
[quote="mgold07"]I find it good to know that Crazed does not believe in rape and yet does believe in the killing of orphans.[/quote]
[quote="cable"]Jimbob is the internet..... No need to change anything [/quote]
I'm the official "Mad Fairy Godmother" of the forum.
Thanks Aruy!
Thanks Blacky!
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