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Thu Apr 17, 2008 9:26 pm |
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okay so this has been mentioned about in my other thread so here is a thread all its own.
abortions I am against them if there used as a form of birth control b/c that is just not right to me i say smarten up and put a rubber on. on the other hand my girl friend has had one the story is we have a 3 year old girl we where big partys and didn't use a rubber one too many times so we sucked it up and know we have a wonderful baby girl. we learn from our mistakes and used one from then on but a few months ago on broke and she got pregnat (what can i say i don't miss) and after we talked about we decided there was NO way we could handle another baby right know we are in debt and trying to get better jobs to get out of debt so another baby was just no possibly.
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 12:30 am |
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 5:24 am |
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yeah, there is another abortion topic, and i'm for choice, but only in certain time, for instance, after a rape, if the kid will have a problem after birth and will need to suffer a lot.
your problem though is, in my opinion, not a reason for abortion, adoption might be a better solution, though i dunno if adopted kids are always happy with where they end up
don't use abortion as a birth controll though
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 7:34 am |
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I would never have an abortion erik but if you and you're girlfriend have thought long and hard about it and think its the best way to go then go ahead its your choice but I would consider adoption first look into different foster homes and everything
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 7:39 am |
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| though i dunno if adopted kids are always happy with where they end up |
better than not having a choice to live...?
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 7:46 am |
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Okay seifer let me roll out a scenario for you I knew this kid who had been adopted by this family who looked nice on the outside well they turned out to be childmolesters he spent thriteen years of his life being molested before social services found out about it and stepped in and now he gets bounced from foster to foster home every two weeks he doesn't turn eighteen til march of next year so he has over 12 months left of the living hell his life has turned out to be.
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Im po choice because of the reasons wingzero and tifa16 have listed. Im sure that were not all unfamliar with stories of newborns being left at bus stops and things like that. against it as use of birth control bit I really think that just because of one slip a couple shouldnt have to feel locked in which is what often happens when something unplanned like this happens
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 3:52 pm |
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| Tifa16 wrote: |
| Okay seifer let me roll out a scenario for you I knew this kid who had been adopted by this family who looked nice on the outside well they turned out to be childmolesters he spent thriteen years of his life being molested before social services found out about it and stepped in and now he gets bounced from foster to foster home every two weeks he doesn't turn eighteen til march of next year so he has over 12 months left of the living hell his life has turned out to be. |
im sorry, but that child still deserves the right to live after conception. that is the social services problem, so maybe we should have stricter laws making them check people out more.
i get the whole rape scenario, but adoption is always better than termination in my opinion. give the right laws and better foster homes, it would always be better. and if two people are dumb enough to have unprotected sex, the child shouldnt be the one to suffer for their mistake. they should be adopted by the millions of couples who cant have children in the country.
let me roll you a scenario ^^. i was adopted from birth because my mother was too young. and clearly, im happy to be alive.
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 4:11 pm |
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ahh i checked the first page but did not check the second.
i agree that the child has a right to live but its not as simple as that we talked about giving brooklyn up when shannon first got pregnant but after 3 or 4 months she could not even think about doing it any more she had become too attached. so we know that would happen again if we keep this one not only that we could not affored to have her not working and she had to have c-section with brooklyn so the risk of somthing going wrong with the next child is throw the roof.
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 5:42 pm |
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did you contact both your parents about it?
they might have some usefull help, maybe a doctor or any close relatives/friends ?
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Fri Apr 18, 2008 6:08 pm |
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no it was not something we wanted everyone knowing about we talked about we thought about the Options and that was the one we came to.
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If you allowed abortion, then 95% or more people that doing it are not because they got rape or health issue, it will be because of people are to lazy to buy condoms
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Sat Apr 19, 2008 3:52 am |
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i don't know where u are from but they are allowed here
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Sat Apr 19, 2008 6:36 am |
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besides, an abortion has more risk and is more expensive as a condom, so i don't think that's right razul...
all i can say to erik is to do what seems best to both of you...
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Sat Apr 19, 2008 8:09 am |
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The thing is though alot of people if they dont want the baby dont want to have to give birth? o i think hy should they be force to
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