i think that study is wrong too, i mean i am on my computer the whole day and i'm not depressed. sure, i get bored and cant find anything else to do, but that's different to being depressed.
and i believe it was arc who said it, but maybe you should start doing things differently, weirdy, try not taking ppl seriously, because they aren't most of the time. maybe you should go running or swimming or w/e to relax....yes, you need to relax
Death_Penalty wrote:
You eminate not only beauty, but a distinct knowledge of the inner workings of the mind, that even the greatest scholars on earth would be envious of. You walk on the water of life on the shoes of perfection and cast aside the sheer idiocity of the masses of inferiority
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so sweet ^^ see? 'sides, who cares what you look like, in the end, we end up looking the same.
anyway, if you think physical activity would help you keep your mind from 'being drepressed' then do it, it'll help you feel better too ^^
Death_Penalty wrote:
You eminate not only beauty, but a distinct knowledge of the inner workings of the mind, that even the greatest scholars on earth would be envious of. You walk on the water of life on the shoes of perfection and cast aside the sheer idiocity of the masses of inferiority
Do you like Japanese stuff, no matter how insane? Then join Sakura no Ai ^^ throw me a PM and I'll gladly add you ^_~
errr maybe... *shrug* let's think you didn't ok? XD
there are many ways to figh depression...one is being...errr physically active ^^ work out, and stuff...
Death_Penalty wrote:
You eminate not only beauty, but a distinct knowledge of the inner workings of the mind, that even the greatest scholars on earth would be envious of. You walk on the water of life on the shoes of perfection and cast aside the sheer idiocity of the masses of inferiority
Do you like Japanese stuff, no matter how insane? Then join Sakura no Ai ^^ throw me a PM and I'll gladly add you ^_~
If she wants to lose weight, start excersising and going on a diet. If she finds that it doesn't work then take some thyroxine pills with the diet and excersise...
You are Stern the Destructor (星光の殲滅者): Polite, calm and logical... ...But nevertheless extremely dangerous!
she didn't say she wanted to lose weigh, she said she was depressed. i believe she needs something to relieve stress and working out is a good way to do it
Death_Penalty wrote:
You eminate not only beauty, but a distinct knowledge of the inner workings of the mind, that even the greatest scholars on earth would be envious of. You walk on the water of life on the shoes of perfection and cast aside the sheer idiocity of the masses of inferiority
Do you like Japanese stuff, no matter how insane? Then join Sakura no Ai ^^ throw me a PM and I'll gladly add you ^_~
it's complicated, the human mind is messy like that. some ppl think death is the perfect escape, while others are afraid of it. some ppl think those who commit suicide are cowards who can't face reality, whereas some others think they must have a lot of balls to go and pull the trigger.
me? i'd like to take my chances with life ^^
as long as you are alive you can go on the old way: trial and error. but if you decide to die then it's just once, it's not a trial and error situation, you pull the trigger and you're gone for good, if there was something really good waiting for you it's impossible to come back...
...i think that wasn't very clear XD
Death_Penalty wrote:
You eminate not only beauty, but a distinct knowledge of the inner workings of the mind, that even the greatest scholars on earth would be envious of. You walk on the water of life on the shoes of perfection and cast aside the sheer idiocity of the masses of inferiority
Do you like Japanese stuff, no matter how insane? Then join Sakura no Ai ^^ throw me a PM and I'll gladly add you ^_~
I think people should just stick with their genetic function of survival and reproduction...
I felt suisidal before, but I realise that the only thing that's making my life miserable is my laziness to do anything about it. I'f I'm unhealthy and unfit, I find a way to solve that problem. Right now, I no longer jump to stupid conclusions about the "afterlife" and how it would be "anything better than this".
Rule is: Live and Learn.
No excuse for giving up! ^^
You are Stern the Destructor (星光の殲滅者): Polite, calm and logical... ...But nevertheless extremely dangerous!
lots of ppl find lots of excuses, but i believe some ppl refuse to think there's a good excuse to think life's not worth it
Death_Penalty wrote:
You eminate not only beauty, but a distinct knowledge of the inner workings of the mind, that even the greatest scholars on earth would be envious of. You walk on the water of life on the shoes of perfection and cast aside the sheer idiocity of the masses of inferiority
Do you like Japanese stuff, no matter how insane? Then join Sakura no Ai ^^ throw me a PM and I'll gladly add you ^_~
Alright, guess I'll insert my less than adequate ideas. I'm neither clinically depressed nor consistently depressed. I have an entirely different problem caused by a self-induced training. I have dulled emotions except for anger. It all came from me having to grow up quick. At the age of 5, I had no temper control. I was throwing tables in my preschool, which was taught by my mother. Then, I got tired of being angry all the time, so i spent the next year growing up. By the age of 6, I was mentally on par with a 5th grader and some high schoolers. After that, even today, I work to get complete control over my temper. This in turn has dulled many of my other emotions, leaving me kinda neutral. So, the lesson to all this. Depression functions in much the same way. A person can overcome it. Even if doctors say that it a chemical imbalance, oh well. Just work hard and discipline your mind to find the good in all things, like I disciplined my mind to mercilessly rein in my temper. And when I am depressed, I know that I have a couple really close friends to spill my guts to, and they will listen and try to get me to let go of it. I also have a gorgeous girlfriend who deals with my weird emotion extremes. It's been happening recently. Since I've opened up to her, my dulled emotions are sharpening. My anger is the same. I can keep it in check, but sometimes i find myself in an extreme state of emotion that is pretty much unexplained. She deals with that and then she helps me get over whatever triggered it. So, I already know that this works with problems, so maybe it'll work for everyone here.
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Tue Mar 30, 2010 7:38 am
Ragnarok
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I saw a bilboard once for depression awareness that said
"You don't say 'It's just cancer get over it"
I'm actually battling a mild form of depression...I haven't been actually diagnosed but...I can kinda tell y'know...especially when I get into really dark moods...but this isn't about me
and Shade...its easier said than done to do those things...especially for someone who takes a step outside and instantly thinks of throwing themselves into moving traffic...personal experience...don't wanna go into any more detail...it isn't as easy as trying to see the good in anything...because that really isn't how it works...
Maybe it is just my willpower or morals, but I've actually had many many many suicidal thoughts, but I wouldn't dare perform them. Against my morals. But, what i say is true. I never said it was easy, but if you work at it earnestly, you will find that the world is beautiful and worth living in.
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